While sparks flew in between Owen as well as his new lady buddy on Monday’s 9-1-1: Lone Star, not everyone in firehouse 126 was rather so lucky in love. If you’ve seen the episode, you recognize we’re referring to Paul, whose initial date with a woman considering that moving to Austin finished with a handshake … and also an apology. (And if you have not seen the episode, reverse currently. Spoilers ahead!)
Despite hitting it off with a woman he saved from a strip club quarrel– a typical meet-cute scenario in the 9-1-1 universe– Paul was originally reluctant to ask her out. As a transgender guy, he had quite a bit more to consider than his cisgender co-workers, consisting of whether the object of his affection would certainly also be open to dating a person from the trans neighborhood.
“There’s this belief sometimes from individuals that have not lived the trans experience that’s just like, ‘You should inform everybody. You owe it to them,'” actor Brian Michael Smith, who is additionally transgender, informs TVLine. “But the reality is, you do not understand just how people are mosting likely to react. And many individuals do not even have the language to discuss what their trans experience is, or what maybe. Individuals that are trans do not owe you their entire history right out the gate, just like you would not approach a person and inform them your medical history. You construct trust fund.”
Speaking of trust, it had not been till T.K. admitted to getting being unloaded by his ex-boyfriend that Paul really felt comfortable sharing his own instabilities concerning dipping his toe right into the dating pool. Not just was this a big moment for Paul, however as Smith describes, it talks with an absence of vulnerability and openness in numerous male relationships.
“It revealed that this league is deepening and also getting more powerful,” Smith claims. “They’re having person talk and also being even more prone and also open, enough where Paul felt secure adequate to say, ‘This is why I’m frightened.’ He shared his story with people that might not understand his exact experience, however they recognize pain as well as denial. We as men might have various access points to our feeling of manhood and also manliness, but we’re undergoing similar things. We have more alike than our differences would certainly recommend.”
Paul did eventually ask Josie out, causing a night of beers, bowling as well as small talk. But when Josie suggested they continue things back at her apartment or condo, Paul said there was something he had to tell her. We didn’t really witness the subsequent discussion, yet when Josie appeared at the firehouse the next day to apologize for her reaction, the writing got on the wall.
“I type of like that [we really did not see Paul and Josie’s preliminary conversation],” Smith claims. “It left area for the target market to think about it. They’ve spent so much time strolling in Paul’s shoes, so now they can question what he would certainly state and also just how she ‘d respond. I like that we left it up to the target market to think about that and to obtain an understanding of exactly how challenging that discussion might be for a trans individual.”
Regardless of locating Paul “thoughtful, attractive and enchanting as heck,” Josie told him, “I presume I’m just not as developed as I assumed I was. I’m not an awful person. I really simulate you. I simply don’t believe this is something I can surpass. I’m sorry.”
“It’s heartbreaking for him,” Smith states, “however it definitely shows a truth. I appreciated that [Josie] was able to be straightforward about her sensations, which she was able to take possession of her poor response. She stayed with her truth, instead of acting that things were awesome, only for the truth to come out later. I like that she apologized, not for her feelings, but for her response. As well as even though that romantic component really did not manifest, Paul did get a more detailed relationship with T.K. as well as Carlos. So he started out in one way, however he won in one more.”
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